Splitting chores fairly as a couple
Who actually does what? For couples this question decides mood and fairness. wohnli makes both contributions visible – turning mental load into a fair team game.
Making mental load visible
The biggest fairness killer is invisibility: thinking of grocery lists, coordinating appointments, tracking supplies – none of that shows up on a chore chart. With wohnli every task is created and scored, including the invisible ones.
Once both see everything, the conversation changes: from blame to concrete planning. It does not get more specific than that.
50/50 is not fair for everyone
Fair does not always mean half-half: whoever works full time may take on less – but transparently and by agreement. Statistics show the actual distribution, point values reflect the effort.
What matters is shared agreement on the rules. Set point values together, review the numbers monthly and adjust. That keeps the split feeling fair permanently.
Streaks for everyday life as two
Streaks motivate even as a pair: who holds the longest run on the unloved tasks? Small rituals – a Sunday walk after the big clean as a shop reward – strengthen the relationship on the side.
And when things grind: numbers do not lie. One look at the statistics replaces the third fundamental debate about the dishwasher.
Questions from couples
Does wohnli work for two?
Yes, couples are a core case: two members, full transparency, shared rewards. Many couples also use the rewards shop for shared goals like restaurant visits.
How do you score invisible tasks?
Create them as tasks with realistic points – grocery planning, paperwork, organizing gifts. What has a name and points counts.
What if we argue about the split?
That is what statistics are for: run one normal month, then look at the numbers together. Usually the debate resolves itself.
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